Blog #4

 What has surprised me the most so far is the students I have been working with. The student's behaviors and attitudes were not what I would expect from elementary schoolers. For example, it is a common trend that students have issues with dealing with losses. In gym, the majority of activities are competitive, and thus have a winner and a loser. Not all, but many kids seem to have a fear of losing. The kids tend to believe that there is no way that they could lose, therefor there must be something wrong with the game or the kids playing it. This leads to arguments with teachers and students and a lot of assigning blame. I don't think I have ever heard the words "you cheated" more in my life. My mentor and I have had to break up several disputes between students about cheating and the rules of the games. In fact, despite very clear game instructions, the kids seemingly bend the rules to fit their best interests, sparking the problems in the first place. For example, if the game was dodgeball and if you got hit with the ball you would be out, a kid would make up some new rule excusing the fact that he got hit with a ball. I was truly in shock when I first noticed this happening, I never would have expected that losing a game in your 30-minute gym class would have such a hold over these kids. It is as though nothing matters, not sportsmanship nor honesty, solely that the kid did not lose. One of the students is the son of a teacher, and he seems to have this same complex. His mom, the teacher, says it is because during Covid, when they would play games together at home, she would always let her son win, so now the son is not accustomed to losing, and does not know how to handle it when it happens. This is likely the case for a lot of kids

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Blog #5

Blog #8, Final Reflection